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Monday, August 27, 2001

You know, there are a couple stereo types of friends that I think alot of people fit. When you're with a group of people at anytime... You often find yourself with these. Better yet, which type are YOU?

The Talk Friends. The ones that you just talk to. Pretty much about everything, and there's really no secrets hidden between the two of you. You can chill with them, but you usually just end up doing things that are laid back, where you can just talk. You really don't "chill" with them on a regular basis.

The Once a Friend Always a Friend Friends. The ones that you see maybe once a month, or the ones that you haven't talked to for a long time, but when you finally get a chance to hang out, you pick up right where you left off. I have a couple, and it catches me off guard all the time, and makes me feel guilty that i don't chill with them more.

The Chill Friends:
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Generic Chill Friend. The one that you can call call anytime, and they'll meet up with you to just chill. Not too deep in the relationship level. You don't really talk to them besides about simple everyday things. You can't really count on them for much except to be there for you when you need someone to chill with.

The Mooch. The one that always calls you and wants to hang out... meaning, he wants a ride because he has nowhere else to go. Also, upon getting him, he'll have no money nor anything to contribute to the group, besides another mouth to feed and a spot taken up in the car. But i don't mean this in a negative way either, because you never know when those types of people will be there for you.

The Giver. The opposite of the mooch. The one that is always there for you when you need a ride, or you need a 5 spot. The one that you sometimes can't help but to take advantage of, because he's there and you know you CAN. But then, he's the one who's back you always watch, because you know he's been there for you too.

The Entertainer. The one that you want to chill with, because he's the life of the party. He's the one that doesn't really have an opinion of what can be done that night, but wherever place, he'll be their to make things fun.

The Quiet One. The one that always ends up chilling with your group, but because he's so quiet, you feel weird around him, and always try to talk to him. But you never know what to say, because well, he's quiet. He doesn't cause much of a problem though, and you just accept him as part of the group, just the way he is.

The Driver. The one that's always driving, wheither it's because he's the one that always wants to hang out, or because nobody else has a car. He's the one you chill with, because you know you have a ride for the night.. .or he's the one you call when you need a ride or an extra car. (see also, tag-along and giver types.)

The Organizer. The one that makes the phone calls, finds out what the group can do for the night. He'll be the one to call you up and tell you what time to be ready. He's the one that seems like he won't have fun until everything is set up and organized. (sometimes also the Driver type).

The Tag-Along. The one that the group didn't necessarily invite. Somehow he ended up being part of the group or ended up finding the group to hang with for the night. Nobody usually says anything, because face it... we just can't be that mean. (See also, mooch or giver.)

The Cynic. The one in the group that always makes thing difficult. He's the one that doesn't agree on doing something, and rather do something else, but he won't take the time to think of the other thing to do, so time is wasted on trying to make him happy.
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So what kind of friend are you? Well, most likely, you're ALL of those types, it just depends on who you're with and what you're doing. And well, those are the types of people I hang out with... or the types that I am... and well yea, it's just my observation... there are probably alot of other "types" you can think of... and sure, email me if you think you have one that really stands out that I missed.

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